It's not always sunshine

It's not always sunshine !

The eminent author Anthony Robins once said " Every problem is a gift! Without problems we won't be able to grow "

Like I've said in my previous posts, life is a roller coaster with its many ups and downs and twists and turns.. Some are smooth sailing while the others are quiet harsh or rough... When we walk on the road of success we become greatly engaged in our world, that we forget to thank God. We sometimes don't even realize that we are losing on so many precious things of this marvelous  world. And when we slowly try to get the picture of all that we have lost, it becomes too late! 

Some of us fail to hold amicable terms with our life. One can say- many of us lack the ability or the strength to deal with the difficult times of our life.  If you tackle each difficulty with tons of hope and determination, then only you will be able to sleep at night with peace and satisfaction ! 

We all need to anticipate these difficulties as challenges in our life rather then remarking them as "problems" or "punishments from the Almighty".  

We can't perceive every single day as a sunny day! We need to learn that we cannot make a cloudy day, a sunny day but the most we can do is embrace it ! This is the only way we can move forth in life.

We have to face failures in order to reach success! We need to make aims and goals and strive hard to achieve those particular aims. 

The road to success is rocky and harsh and it is affiliated with many minor failures, but these failures help you to evolve as a person. These failures teach you the greatest lessons of life. These failures represent hard work and focus. 

So never give up on anything you do! 

Don't let any of your failure to outweigh your success.. 

Remember friends happiness does not represent the absence of conflicts and problems in ones life but it is is the ability to deal with those conflicts.

 

Thankyouu!

   

 

The displeasing world of greed !

The displeasing world of greed !

Our world and our life can be easily compared to a racing court where each individual is competing on the edge of his/her seat. We all have become a significant part of an extremely 'heated' competition which has no end ! We all have become desperate and greedy for success, power and money without realizing the consequences of our never ending and unhealthy desperation and wants ! These deliberate attempts to achieve many things of this world can prove to be malicious to us! They can impose a long term effect on our hearts and mind which we would encounter alot of difficulty in permanently removing ! Too much greed for money and power detaches us from emotions, sentiments, feelings and other such wonderful and natural aspects of our life.

Too much need for power can give rise to several conflicts which are nasty and merely displeasing! 

Too many wants can lead to us lacking feelings and consideration making us as"soulless" and "ruthless" as ever. We need to learn to stay within our boundaries and realize that money or power cannot buy happiness! Infact happiness and unconditional beauty is confined in the simplest of things ! So all of us should conform to simplicity and live our lives in the best of ways...We need to make sure that conflicts are absent and find ways to make sure we live a healthy and happy life which is far away from the displeasing world of greed and power. Remember friends greed is destructive while simplicity and silence is deep, beautiful and profound (: 

 

Love Rameen(: 

Change(:

Change(:

Change is something which most of us human beings are unwilling to do. Whether, you talk about changing your personality, or changing your place of work or let's changing the environment you live in, none of us are willing to accept the change and move forward , none of us are motivated to meet and greet new people, explore new places, make new friends, create brand new experiences and learn new lessons! I personally fancy change and I'm sure that most of us also find change fascinating and exciting..! However there are still many people who wish to dwell in their past memories and do not wish to embrace their future.

Change is the basic foundation of betterment and maturity..it leads to improvement in our thinking and helps to nurture our thoughts!

For instance: many of us are not willing to accept criticisms and are not ready to change so as to enhance our thoughts  and personality! 

Each one of us should learn to take change in a positive way and consider it as a positive aspect of our lives ! Change helps to evolve us human beings as persons !

 

Thankyouu xoxo

Does equality exist? I don't think so.

Hey everyone, my next post will focus on the emminnent topic of Gender Discrimination!
Even though, a few of us will agree on the fact that our world has tasted success, prosperity and modernization, we can't outlook that problems like Gender Discrimation still exist in many areas. At many places, men are still considered to be more superior than women. Why do we all fail to comprehend the fact that women are equally capable, hardworking, assertive and are in jobs which are intellectually demanding. Additionally, women have proved their discernment and cleverness time and again. I'm not being gender biased here, all I mean to say is that women should be treated with equal respect and admiration! Yes, there are some facts of life that can't be ignored.. For instance, men are physically dominant and they act like a protective shield for women, however I personally feel that women are emotionally stable and can handle themselves better in a times of trouble and hardships !(:

They have a significant role at home too. They support their families, comfort and pacify their husbands and spend their unconditional and immense love and time on their beloved children. They are also very dedicated towards their work outside the four walls of their house. Their dedication, willingness and determination has helped them to achieve success and prosperity in their work and now many women are proudly part of higher level management committees and are doing well globally.. However women should make sure to maintain a balance between their personal and professional lives. They should make sure to nurture their kids in a proper manner so that they don't become victims of disregardance and negligence..!

In the past years, many unfortunate cases of gender discrimination and sexual harrasment at work have been reported.   I'm sure that all of us are educated enough and it's a part of our social upbringing to treat each other with respect and exhibit a positive attitude towards each other at places of work ! Lets join together to anticipate changes to our society

- much love, Rameen xoxo

The Race against Time !

So while I was doing one of my exams, a myriad of thoughts started racing through my mind ; will I do good? What will my parents think if my marks aren't satisfactory ? Will these marks lead me to prosperity ? To be honest, at one point of time, I wasn't exactly in a state of answering any of these questions as I didn't want my concentration to divert. Cuz if your concentration,in those two hours work on any other activity, then the purpose and the hardwork we spent in that entire year of academics is forgone and we learn the answers to our questions eventually, and these answers to our dismay are negative.
Time isn't in our control. For instance, while sleeping the fact becomes incomprehensible to us that how those 8 hours passed. When an incident occurs, it leaves many of us wondering "How did this happen? My child was with me just a day ago! He was playing and cuddling in my arms. How come he isn't here anymore ?"
Time fights with our emotions, sentiments and priorities. Some people say, that things will get better with time. While, the others say that things will worsen as time passes by. This is one unique quality of time that it is 'two-faced' in its own way whether positive or negative. Some people wish to cease a moment for years, while the others want that moment to pass as quickly as possible. We should learn to understand the magnitude and importance of time. Every minute holds it's own significance. Every second wasted has its disadvantages. While doing an exam, a track of every second needs to be kept as on that very moment, every second will matter. The day everyone will comprehend and absorb the fact that time is valuable, will be the day our society will stop being vulnerable to externalities. The day we learn to keep a record of every second passed, will be the day our minds and heart will stop being fragile !

Thanks nd much love xo
P.S- this post was supposed to be posted on 13th December 2012 

Life Vs Death, who wins ?

So here's a short story which I randomly wrote one day since I was bored, just thought of sharing it with you guys with a moral added to it (:


To Love is to Live<3
Princess Patricia of Knightingale was madly in love with her driver Leonardo, who equally adored her. However,her family did not approve this unusual relationship and wished to marry her off to a royal kin. After her constant renunciation to the wedding,her wicked brother hanged Leonardo to death. Patricia was petrified beyond belief and decided to kill herself by consuming rat poison. However, a thought suddenly striked her mind that taking her life will do her no good and in fact she will perish in pain, heartbreak and agony. So she decided  to live for the sake of her love and heart.

Sounds like an old, monotonous story right? This is just a small example I have given,but if you go to the depth of it, you will realize that sometimes to live is better than dying. Life is a journey of pain but that doesn't mean we give up soon. The Almighty has bestowed a blessing upon us which is life and we possess no right to take it away from us. We should all comprehend the magnitude of life. We should learn to hold amicable terms with life rather than unceasingly affiliating ourselves with day to day tensions and worries. Life Is a roller coaster ride with its continuous twists and turns, some things do appear spasmodic and absurd to us initially but eventually we learn to live with it. Embracing reality and acceptance is the best solution to all our problems. Death is inevitable and will come to us at its appointed time. In a world full of choices, death is definitely not the best of options ...

Rameen xoxo

Spirituality

Religion is one aspect of my life which I respect the most(: even though I may not be completely religious, I always turn up to Allah in the toughest times of my life cuz I believe that He is the One who will help me to prosper in future and He is always there with us...

Religions helps a person to acquire joy and a peace of mind. In addition, religion helps to keep our hearts pure and is the soul of our life. Religion probes us into the right direction and helps to derive us out from the toughest of situations. During hard times, we need someone to turn upto and someone to ask for mercy and help..
Many incidents take place in our life, where we are petrified beyond belief and are unwilling to accept the situation we have ended in. There are times where we feel distressed and uneasy and our bodies become numb with fear and revulsion. These are the times when we turn upto God and ask Him to bestow his mercy upon us and keep us safe.
Religions teaches us to love and and exhibit a caring attitude towards all the Creations of the Almighty :) so believe in spirituality and spread the love